hi everyone，im so glad coming here, and hearing all your stories. really inspired by that. my boyfriend was diagnosed as tongue cancer in the beginning of 2010, but get operation in june and for him, it is curled. but now, we found it comes back again, and the cancer cells have already spread to his neck and brain. i know this is the worst thing. now we are in china coz he is working here, and he refused to go back to uk to get treatment, as he said, the treatment he had bdfore is so painful and unbearable. although he is contacting with the uk doctors,trying to find whether it is worth getting treatment or not. if it not, if he can only live for several years, he will give up and do the things he likes in the rest of time. but i want him to get treatment, because there always have chance to sirvive. we plan to get married in May, but now he is pusing me away from him, make me leave. what i should do? can anyone give any suggestions?