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Hi

On 25 January I noticed a white lump under my tongue and went to the doctor. He didn't seem concerned about, but on my insistance arranged a consultation with the dental clinic,

I was unable to make the appointment due to work commitment,and told them I still would like to come in.

I haven't heard anything further about another appointment and am honestly too scared to re arrange one, for fear of bad news.

Im going crazy and not functioning too well.

I realize I must go see the doctor again, and will make another appointment tomorrow, as my hoping this lump will go away is just not useful at all.

I have no family in England and don't want to scare my friends with my problems, or work for that matter.

I hope I can get myself together and face this thing.

John


John
 
Posts: 14 | Location: London | Registered: 19 May 2004Reply With QuoteReport This Post
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Hi johnoutthere, the best advice anyone can give you i think is see your doc then go for the appointment as the sooner you go the sooner you will know. Also if it is cancer the sooner they get it the better it will be. I know you fell worried we all do, but no good worrying yourself if it is not anything serious. Hope you get good news,keep us updated. hich ever way the results go the people on here will help and support you all they can.
Cheers Maurice
 
Posts: 169 | Location: Nelson Lancashire UK | Registered: 23 April 2004Reply With QuoteReport This Post
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Hi John

You have heard Maurice. Go get seen to and stop wearing yourself out with worry. Hope all turns out well for you.

Best wishes
Vinod :coffee:


Disclaimer: Please see your own dentist/doctor for a proper diagnosis as my words should not, in any circumstances, be taken as dental/medical advice.

"If you see what is small as it sees itself, and accept what is weak for what strength it has, and use what is dim for the light it gives, then all will go well. This is called Acting Naturally."
Lao-Tsu, Tao Teh King
 
Posts: 3344 | Location: St Luke's Hospital, Bradford and Pinderfields Hospital, Wakefield | Registered: 14 December 2002Reply With QuoteReport This Post
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I BEG YOU TO GO TO BACK AND FIND OUT WHAT THIS """WHITE """ SPOT IS,,,LISTEN THE SOONER THE BETTER THE LONGER YOU WAIT,,,THE WORSE THIS COULD GET,,,THEY FOUND MINE AND I WAS IN FOR SURGERY WITHIN THE WEEK,,,,I WAS CANCER FREE FOR 10 YEARS,,SO PLEASE GET THIS TAKEN CARE OF,,,YOU WILL BE SO VERY SORRY IF YOU DON'T,, GOD BE WITH YOU,,ALWAYS,, VICKI LYNN,,,P.S. ALL """WHITE""" SPOTS ARENT CANCER,,,,GOOD LUCK TO YOU,,
 
Posts: 608 | Location: Las Vegas | Registered: 15 May 2004Reply With QuoteReport This Post
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Hi

I re-scheduled an appointment for 11 June, 3 weeks to wait ,will keep you updated.

Its nice to have people who understand my fear to talk too.

Thanks
John.


John
 
Posts: 14 | Location: London | Registered: 19 May 2004Reply With QuoteReport This Post
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johnoutthere,

Good for you for sched. w/ your doctor.The sooner the better.My friend was afraid to go to the doctor and waited like 6 months to go to the doctor concerning a very swollen lymph node in his neck.So when he was diagnosed he was already stage 4 squamous cell carcinoma. The doctor told him this would be so much easier if he had not waited. Please don't cancel out of fear. Maybe if anything you will get some peace, anxiety is the worst! Good luck and God bless!


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Posts: 65 | Location: pa | Registered: 21 May 2004Reply With QuoteReport This Post
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JOHN, MY only advise get to the Doctor on Monday.
I can tell you mate that if you wait things will be worse if anything was wrong.
IF you are NOT happy ask for a second opinion I never did and it cost me dearly.
GOOD LUCK mate let us know.

Paul
 
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