Dearest Deborah ,have been thinking about you constantly and read your post with a heavy heart .He fought this bloody disease with such strength and dignity never loosing his sense of humour and always boosting others on the forum regardeless of his own health .He was an amazing man who will always stay in our hearts and will never be forgotten,it has been a privelege indeed to have gotten to know him on this forum.

I think you wrote a beautiful post Deborah in this time of grief and the loss you must be feeling overwhelming ,yet you found the time to post with such passion and elegance ,Trevor's girl indeed .

Just want to let you know we are thinking of you and the rest of your wonderful family .The distance between us is great but if we can be of any help whatsoever we are only a posting away .

Please pass our kindest sympathies on to your family.

Sincere wishes and love ,

Bell and Paul .

Very sad news. At least his pain has now ended and he is at peace. Will miss all of the posts 'Trevor style'.

Sending love.

Lorraine & Robert

No words are enough.

I am so sorry Debs and family . I can only echo what Bell said what a beautiful post for a beautiful man .

Love from me and Niges brother and mum xx

Such sad news. What a lovely tribute from you. We have all smiled at his postings, & wept for you as time has passed, for your lovely man, who we could only meet online but will never forget.
He will be missed. Lots of love, Fran.

Dearest Deb,

As much as its hard to digest that Trev is no longer with us in the physical sense - he will will be when one thinks of him. He is one man who really loved and lived life to its very end. Deaarest Bell, I really dont know what more I can add - except I am going to miss my mate till I find him again.
lots and lots of love and hugs,
Ananth

Debs,

I am so sorry to hear that your Trev has passed away. Everytime I use the site I always look for the Trevs/Debs message and updates. So many times when I have been really low your banter and real life stories have made me smile.

Have not been posting much recently because I have been really struggling with life and surviving. In the last year I got this awful cancer, lost my mother and just two weeks ago my father. Losing my parents is so painful and scary and full of fond memories. I talk to them often. Keep smiling Debs.

Thanks Trev and Debs for all your help

Take care

Ken

Hi Deb, so sorry to hear such shit news. Trev was a true fighter, as everyone knows, and his posts will be missed.
Take care of yourself, I only wish there was something I could do for you and your family. Hagg.

so very sorry to hear this news, but glad he is now at peace, hope your memories give you strength in the days ahead,anything I can do, if you need to talk, always here for you. He was a wonderful and inspirational man

My dearest Debs, such sad news. Trev was a very loved man. You have fought this battle every inch of the way with him. Now you must have time to grieve. I will pm you after a while. Keeping you in my thoughts, wish I could take a bit of the pain away for you.
Mum
xxxxxx xxxx

Dear Debs,

I am so sorry to hear that Trev's is no longer with us but glad he is no longer in pain. What a brave fighter he was and how lucky he was to have you by his side over the last few months.

I found your strength amazing and you seemed to keep getting him out and about and enjoying himself on amazing outings to the zoo, water and McDonalds until very recently.

I am sure we will all be thinking of you lots as you come to terms with your new reality without the love of your life. I am sure it will be very painful, but as you say, how lucky you are to have enjoyed such unconditional love. I was reading Bell's post yesterday about her 35 years with Paul and thinking that it is unimaginable that some people live their whole lives without experiencing love...

Anyway will PM you in due course. Take care and wear your tattoo with pride.

Love
Cathy

Deborah

So very sorry to hear your sad news. Trev was such a wonderful man, brave, funny, caring, inspirational and strong. And you have cared for him so well and with such strength yourself.

There is really nothing I can say except to wish you continued strength in the time ahead as you start to come to terms with such an enormous loss.

"Think not in grief that he is no more, but in thankfulness that he was."

With love

Gwyn

Hello Deb,just wanted to say how sorry I am at your sad news.Your posts have been an inspiration to me for these past few months I've only known about this site.I wish I had found it sooner and could have taken part in some of your wonderful messages.

Please take care of yourself,my thoughts are with you.

Love and hugs, sammy x x

Hi Deb

So sorry to hear of your loss, Trev was an inspiration to everyone on the site and will be sadly missed by all.

Dave and me echo everyones thoughs by not knowing what to say to you and your family at this sad time, but know tht we will be thinking of you and your family.

I will PM you later, but as always I am there if you need a chat.

Take care love from Dave & me.
xx