Cannot stop thinking about you both tonight Debs and Trev . Your posts were part of what kept our Nige going when he was feeling his worst . I want to say thank you to you both for that and if Nige was with us he would know exactly what to say as he was better with words than me...Trev you are a lovely person Debs you are an angel

Better to get those tears out than to keep them pent up Debs.
Good to know he's stll holding on to a little of that Trev spark we all love!

I'm still lurking - don't really want to get into how i'm getting on as t doesn't seem apropriate right now. But life is very good for me at the mo .

Been checking back every day for the past couple of weeks to see if there's any news. Don't always like to post as it's hard to fnd the words. Nothing can make this awful, heart breaking situation ok. Words sometimes seem silly and trivial. But it's important you know how much admiration you have from us all!
Love to you all,
Michelle

Chelle
maybe Trevor would like to hear your news,you know what a soft spot he has for a pretty girl lol

love liz

Hello Mrs. Sorry,I have been away over the bank holiday (again) ergo not kept up but that doesn't mean I am not with you in spirit. Always in my thoughts.

Hi Deb,

Just wanted to let you know that there is not a day goes by without out Dave and me thinking and chatting about you and Trev, as well as other great friend we have because of this site, we don't post as much but always check the site for new of everyone.

Like Michelle said it's hard to find the right words to say at this sad time, but always remember you are in our hearts.

A good cry does you the world of good,and recharges your batteries and you deserve to be pampered some times.

Love to you all.
Dave & Sue
xx

Trev certainly must know how much we all love him - never a day goes by when I don't think about him.

Hugs and love to you all down there - and just wishing there was something I could say or do to help.

xxx

Hi Debs

Just checking in and thinking of you both
Love
Mum
xx

Hi Debs and Trev

Just a quick line to show that somebody else is thinking about you both. Hope you both have a comfortable night.

Love

Chris

Hi Debs and Trev,

I hope everyday goes easier for you both and my thoughts are with you!

Pam

Close to the end of another day and I have to check in to see how you and Trev and Paul and Bell are doing. I see that you're online right now and hope you're adding to Trev's thread.

I'm 19 hours behind you (HTF does that happen?) and find I'm on with you a lot in the Wee Small Hours of the UK Morning.

Ask Trev: is it true that you South Australians are called 'crow eaters?' You've got some 'splaining to do!

Take care, dear Deb. Give my love to that man in all of our lives.

Mimi

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Dear trev and Deb,
I really wish I had met you both on my last visit to Down Under. However, I just cannot turn the clock back to those days and if I could have done so - I would never ever should or will miss the oportunity. Trev is a great guy. I am not sure how to describe him but let me give it a go- he is tough as nails, soft hearted,gives love with asking any in return and can also turn on the heat whenever he wants. There are very few people like that and though I have not met you both personally - I am happy that I did manage to "meet" you both through rdoc.

I realise it is a bit too late but will ask in anycase. If you do need any kind of help (dont misunderstand me please ) - please do not hesitate to ask me. Whatever you want will be done willingly and from my heart.

Trev- stop playing the "poor old chap" - you have enough love and a lot of people who are by your side and pampering you. Give all these guys a brak and get back on your feet and just have a great laugh. I am sure you cn do it, I am sure.

Take care both of you,
With loads of love and hugs,
Ananth

Wishing you strength and love too

A x

Thinking of you and sending love.
Cath

No words - just thoughts and love.

xx

Where do I start?
At 6.40pm on Sunday 10th May the love of my life finally found peace from this bastard disease. He fought tooth and nail right to the end.
I haven't posted because I have been staying at the hospital since Trevor was admitted on Thursday afternoon, with 'not much time left'. Do the sums ~ he gave them all a run for their money, hanging out for the cure I'm sure he thought would miraculously appear for 3 more days and some hours.
He is my hero, without a doubt. Like any couple, we've had our ups and downs but no matter what we have been through together I never, ever in my wildest dreams knew the inner strength he had until he was tested by his cancer ordeals. If asked, I would never have imagined nor been able to describe the limitless determination he showed no matter how tough or challenging the going got. While we as a family are poorer for having lost him, not one of us could be any richer because of the unconditional love he felt, and showed for each of us.
I will get back to you all once I try to find my feet in my new reality. Once again, thank you everyone for the love and thoughtfulness you have all shared with us and particularly with Trevor. You know, he really, really, really (!) just wanted to outlive Patrick Swayze!
Love to you all
Deborah
x

Trevor Raymond Wise
3.9.1944 (Father's Day) ~ 10.5.2009 (Mother's Day)
~Inspiration Personified ~