results back this morn . sadly it is cancer he has a flight booked home and an app at hosp here on thurs afternoon .

Sorry to hear your news charly.

We are here for you when needed, keep us informed. Will be thinking of you on Thursday

Love
Mum
xx

Dear Charly,

I am so sorry to hear of your devastating news, I know how it is to be on the opposite side of the world and receive this terrible news, for both the patient and the carer.

best wishes
Moira

brother in law arrived home this morn and had app at hosp this afternoon , got to go back tomorrow to discuss treatment . i think now that tomorrow i shall show him this site so that he can register from his own email address and start his own thread . his name is Nigel . thanks for the support

Hi Charly, so glad you found us. Remember ,we are here to continue to support you & your Family, so anything you want to know, ask away day or night, there is usually someone online. Fran

Hi! Charly,
Not a site that you would have wonted to be part of BUT fate has deaalt a nasty blow and now Nigel will have to go through all the dramas that have been bestowed on us here, BUT with your support and our site he will go through nowing that there are others with varying complaints to get questions answered. You are doing fine Charly and keep in touch even if Nigel does join up as there are always questions that are thought of by others that can help the one that is carrying the "C"
"Stay Strong"
Love Trev

hey fran ,trev thanks for replies , nige has joined am tryin to show him how forum works takes a while to get your head around it doesn't it . He's doin welllooks fantastic and yes he has good support of us lot here and hopefully can get better support and help from fellow forum users . you all seem a friendly happy bunch thanks for all replies to both mine and nigels posts .

hi my brother in law has been given a date 28th for the EUA and operation to follow a few days later . one of us will keep you posted . in the meantime we are all off to spend a week in France . see you when we return

just got back from hospital . nigel seemed okay when we left but i think reality has hit today. he has had his EUA and 5 teeth removed and his peg put in ready for op next week. will keep you posted .

Tell him that we are all routin' for him.

we have just dropped nigel off at the hospital ready for his op in morn .will post tomorrow when i hear how it went . don't know if i'll be able to see him tomorrow afterwards guess he'll just head straight to intensive care ??

hi charly
sorry you have had to find yourself using this site,having said that,there is lots of support here for you and your brother.i hope evrything goes well for him.all the best.love shirl xxx

thanks shirl he has already introduced himself on here nigel martin but hasn't been on for a while , he is pretty positive and i think that we will be seeking advise here after tomorrow x

this is the hard bit now just waiting until we get a call from the surgeon ... i feel sick

Hi charly

Waiting is always so difficult isn't it? I remember years ago waiting while first my mother then my brother had serious operations. It was impossible to think about anything else and the anxiety was overwhelming. When I was going in for my operation last October I made sure that my husband spent the day with friends so he had some support - I hope you have some too. It will seem a long day but then it will be over and hopefully things will be able to move forward.

Thinking of you

Gwyn