hi everyone
i came on to tell you i won't be posting for some time
i found out today that mums cancer is back and this time it is termanil sorry i don't know what to do i am gutted i thought that was it

Oh my Liz, I am so so sorry, please come and talk to us if you need to. We will all be here for you...Hug Mum for us all and please let her know that we have all be praying daily for her..and will continue to pray. All of love, thoughts and prayer,,,,,Vicki Lynn

Dear Liz Can I join with Vicki in sending you and your mum my love and prayers. You will get strength from somewhere to make every day special.

Dear Liz

I am so sorry to hear about this; you have been a wonderful daughter. But as much as we would like to believe otherwise, all of us will have to close the chapter on our life here on Earth. It hurts. The pain of grief and loss is the price we pay for the love, good times, and wonderful memories of those we love. Your mum and you will benefit from help from a hospice or a social worker who specializes in grief counseling. There can be great comfort in the spiritual acceptance of our mortality.

Hold your your mum tight and tell her you love her, that is what she needs from you now. We are always here if you wish to talk to us.

Best wishes
Vinod

hello everyone
mum has taken another bad turn so bad that i was called back to the hospital last night from what i could understand of what the doctor was say they didn't think mum was going to make it through the night he said that mum was so poor that in a round about way if mum stopped breathing did we want him to resusatate her but we said no just to let her go fortunatley she made it through the night and has now been moved to huntershill hospice basicly to die sorry everyone but this is really upseting for me take care liz

Oh Liz we are all so sadened to hear this. We are, well I am because I know that one day I will be where Mum is. None of us want this but what can we do. Mum God LOVE her is going to her final place. God love her...and you..Vicki Lynn

Dear Liz We are all feeling for you at this distressing time. We pray that your Mum is in no pain and that you and your family are given the strength and peace you will need over the next few days and weeks. Come back to us when you feel you can. God bless.

Dear Liz, I'm so distressed for you, be assured you have done your best for your Mum, & she is is in good hands. I'll be thinking of you.

I'm sorry I made a mistake in sending you this message, causing your last message to be duplicated in my name. So sorry (fran, i have deleted it for you.)

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