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Disclaimer: Please see your own dentist/doctor for a proper diagnosis as my words should not, in any circumstances, be taken as dental/medical advice. "If you see what is small as it sees itself, and accept what is weak for what strength it has, and use what is dim for the light it gives, then all will go well. This is called Acting Naturally." Lao-Tsu, Tao Teh King |
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Cancer patients' 'misery at work'
By Michael O'Connor, BBC News
Disclaimer: Please see your own dentist/doctor for a proper diagnosis as my words should not, in any circumstances, be taken as dental/medical advice. "If you see what is small as it sees itself, and accept what is weak for what strength it has, and use what is dim for the light it gives, then all will go well. This is called Acting Naturally." Lao-Tsu, Tao Teh King |
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Patients quitting jobs after treatment for head and neck cancer
from SpiritIndia.com:
Disclaimer: Please see your own dentist/doctor for a proper diagnosis as my words should not, in any circumstances, be taken as dental/medical advice. "If you see what is small as it sees itself, and accept what is weak for what strength it has, and use what is dim for the light it gives, then all will go well. This is called Acting Naturally." Lao-Tsu, Tao Teh King |
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How much this reprt cost?
I couldhave told then 1 Fatigue 2 looks 3 eating Problems 4 speech not always in that prder but I am sure the Professionals dont understand how you quality of live dwindles to surving Pauk |
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I think that the survey should have gone beyond a year. It took longer than that for me to be able to stay awake long enough to get up in the morning, eat breakfast, shower, dress, put on my makeup, do my hair, without considering driving to work, working all day then driving home. The fatigue was crushing, and nobody prepared me for that.
I'm feeling much better now, and I have loads more energy, but it definitely took a year until I could even consider returning to work, and 18 months after the end of my treatment I can still see that I have quite a way to go before I return to my full level of fitness. |
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For me, i HAD to return to work for my own sanity. & i returned to work 4&half months after finnishing treatment. I was becoming very depressed & i think a bit agrophobic. I'd talk myself out of leaving the house at every oppertunity. I feel that going back to work ewhen i did helped no end with the fatigue and building my muscle stregnth. & although i get really exhausted by the end of the day emotionaly i feel great! It's really hard work keeping house, working full time, looking after the other half & pets ASWELL as trying to have to resemblance of a social life & see the family! But every week i notice i'm a little stronger physically. I can lift the 25kg sacks of food now, when i started back i couldn't manage the 2.5kg bags! My legs don't ache as much either.
I do find eating at work a big pain in the butt! Not being able to snack or have sandwiches for lunch. I usually have salad with lots of dressing. Ok, hands up sometimes the hassel of eating at work is more than its worth and sometimes i just get by on hot chocolate! Bad i know when i'm supposed to be putting the weight ON. Occasionaly i'll just have a cup-a-soup or something. The nerve damage was limiting at first - i couldn't catch the animals cuz i didn't want to crush them (not knowing how hard my grip was) & not being able to write is a little debilitating. But mainly, i don't know how people can AFFORD to stay off work! I'm 23 - i have a mortgage - i have my pets - & the DWA make you jump through hoops to get any kind of benefit! when my SSP ran out i went on to incapacity benefit. £70 a week! Didn't even come close to covering my mortgage! I had to rely on top ups from family so i'm having to pay them back. I got refused Dissability Living Allowance TWICE even though i had a letter written from my Macmillan nurse & oncologist. It's DISGRACEFUL that you pay your National Insurance & then have to scrape by & potentialy loose your home! Ok, enough ranting... -~*Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds*~- ...Albert Einstein |
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Michelle
you have done really well to do what you are doing work ,home ect I dont know how dissabled you have to be in order to claim DLA its discracefull how you never recieved it is behond disbelief I suppose they proberly turn everyone down and hope they dont pursue it look after yourself Dave and Sue |
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After jaw removal, neck dissection and two futher remidal operations (last one nine weeks ago)I don't know how I am going to fare for work. Still have RT to face and so obviously don't know how that is going to affect me either. Have bad facial disfigurement,restricted movement in my neck, left arm will not lift more than half way, speech not good, very hard to make myself understood by telephone, walk with stick (nerve damage to foot when removing bone to replace jaw)cannot eat, am still peg fed and have a constant drool. I know this will disapear with RT, but at the moment could beat any perve in a dirty mac hands down! Then of course we all know about the fatigue we all try to overcome!
Benifits here in Ireland are slightly different from the UK. At the moment I receive E185.00 a week Illness benifit. I have applied twice for Invalidity Benifit where you get the added bonus of a bus pass (helpful when going for appointments and treatment)(I dont trust myself to drive safely yet)fuel allowance, phone allowance and a few other bits which add up to be very helpful) but have been refused twice. At the insistance of my local Social Welfare office I have applied yet again. Watch this space! Mentally some days I feel if I am losing brain power altogether and sometimes wonder if I am going to end up cabbaged. It's great to visit here and find that I'm not the only one going through this and there are success storys and light at the end of the tunnel. SusieR. |
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Susie, keep going you have had a lot to cope with. You MUST do your exercises for neck and arm. After my neck dissection I couldn't lift my arm at all and movement in my neck was very one dimensional. But I kept at my exercises and now can play tennis and golf.Still have stiffness in neck and left arm is much weaker but I still believe it will get even better! Neck is a problem again after having surgery on my scar. But that will soon recover.
Are you any good at puzzles? I didn't think I was but have become addicted! Keeps the brain going! Good luck with the R/T. When does it start? Anne |
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Dave, when i applied for DLA i was bed bound, Couldn't walk more than 3 steps, was tube fed,k couldn't speak, couldn't hold a pen. I think you're right that they yutn it down as practise.
Susie, It DOES get better. Keep your chin up! -~*Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds*~- ...Albert Einstein |
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Of the 26 participants so far:
This would mean that 24 or 73% have experienced a drop in income and perhaps required financial assistance. Disclaimer: Please see your own dentist/doctor for a proper diagnosis as my words should not, in any circumstances, be taken as dental/medical advice. "If you see what is small as it sees itself, and accept what is weak for what strength it has, and use what is dim for the light it gives, then all will go well. This is called Acting Naturally." Lao-Tsu, Tao Teh King |
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