Hi, I am to have my 7 th Biopsy in 2 years am seriously thinking of of refusing and letting what happens happen
Is this selfish?

Paul

Hi Paul, what a bummer - you have been through such a lot, don't go all negative now. Is it better to know what's what or to live in fear of the unknown? I know this subject has been raised many times (Eileen comes to mind, bless her). My personal choice would be to be in possession of all the facts and then go on from there, but I know we all have different slants on this. Am I right in thinking you are a """left footer""" like me? Sometimes the question is bigger than us - just give it to Him and let Him deal with it. x

Paul, Though I completely understand your frustration with all the byopsies, you worry about them anyway, wouldn't you rather KNOW what is going on than to sit there day in and day out wondering what it is or isn't. I know that we ALL tend to worry so when there is one and then the days, or weeks, afterwards for the results. However at least you get a answer. Don't you? If you do nothing you will never know, I for one just don't think I can do that with my life. I will say this tho, once I find out that it is CANCER again, I don't know that I would do anything about it. That is where I draw the line. But I want to know one way or the other. I don't want to walk around thinking the worst when it isn't. I also don't want to walk around thinking the best, and it isn't that either. To each there own, you have to do whatever it is that you feel comfortable with. I will stand beside you in whatever you decide. Because that is what friends do. You are a very special person in my life, you know that, I will be right here no matter what. Always Vicki

Vicki for First Lady.
Move over Laura
Ishbel

AWWWWWWW!! How sweet is that. I do feel so special about now, thank you. :wow: Before I lost the ability to talk I had a southern accent big time being from Oklahoma. Never lost it living in Las Vegas, probably because I always talked so much to my family back home. Oh how I miss those phone calls. Let me tell you. I think this is the absolute worst thing that could have ever happened to me, my voice...LOL...for I love to talk...sing....whistle.....Boy oh boy....I will again may not sound the same but I will...Thanks for the uplift,,,,I NEEDED IT! Always Vicki Lynn