Moved Reply:

Hi Elaine

So sorry to hear your news was not good. But you have plans to make about your wedding and it will help to concentrate on these when you can (just as you are doing.) Do let us know more about your dress! You sound to have such a good sense of humour and positive attitude and these will help to carry you through.

Thinking of you and sending you lots of love.

Gwyn

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Wow Elaine, you sound like a truly amazing woman. Am so glad that you have found a lovely dress and are busy planning your wedding supported by your daughter.

Please continue to "witter" and let us all know how you are doing and make sure you post some pics of your hot frock.

Cath
x

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Hi Elaine
What good is a journal without pictures? Do be sure to cover everything and keep us all up to speed on plans and progress. How nice it will be to have a wedding on the forum! We cover everything and that's for sure. Witter away.
I love a great sense of humour and it seems you have that in spades, as we do but please remember that the gamut of emotions and states of mind all have a place here. We're all here to share the lot with you.
You will be in our thoughts way down here at the other end of the world.
Take care, Elaine
Deborah

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Hi, this afternoon's plan's went well. We deceided we wanted 28th March and there is a booking available then.Have any of you noticed how men can justify money they spend but actually waste but hate using their money when needed? Well get this. As you know 28th is the start of British Summer Time, so Paul will be paying for a wedding that get's an extra hour free.Bargain or what?He likes the idea.We will be going to Derby to order my dress tomorrow and get the ring's, Nic can pick my engagement ring because that will be for her later, an heirloom.My Mom and sister have taken thing's well and my Aunty Mary came over to be with Mom for a bit (that's my Dad's sister) so they will be ok.My Aunty Val vame as well, she is as daft as a box of frogs so I can't wait to see her with her feathers in her hair,bottle in hand on the evening.I really will get Nic to sort out how to put photo's on here so I will be able to share everything with you. I hope you wont mind or get bored.I am sorry if I am babbling on but I'm so excited.
I have had a roam on the site and feel a bit guilty that some of you are suffering, I wish I could take that from you, I wish even more that you could be over here hugs wouldn't help but would would make everyone feel a bit better. Although I don't know Ananth (I read about you and feel protective towards you, your page was the 1st I read)it was nice to see that you had wrote here and I wish you well,I have read of other member's asking of you.Take care love loads Elaine j xxxx

Moved Reply:

Hi! Elaine,
How are the results going and of course how are the preparations for the wedding going?. I think that you thread has drifted off the beaten path as did mine BUT you will see that it will get back on line again. Our son and fiance are discussing wedding plans at the moment so I feel for you.
"Stay Strong" and keep us in the loop.
Love Trev

Moved Reply:

Elain - sorry to hear your news.

won't you get an hour LESS if you marry on the 28th ? Spring forward - fall back, and all that ?

Either way - 28th March sounds like a good day to me.

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Hi Mom (Elaine)

I thought I would surprise you by leaving you a message here as I know how invaluable this website has become to you.

It's wonderful to see the loving and supportive comments written by everyone on this forum, what a great bunch you all are!

Mom I want you to know how proud we all are of you and love you so much. The wedding will be amazing and your dress looks beautiful.

Anyway I won't ramble on as I don't want to embarrass you!

All my love,
Nik xxx

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HI there Nik
What a lovely thing to do for your Mum.
Nice to have you drop in on the forum, I hope we'll get to see more of you.
Your Mum has a great attitude and sense of humour so she fitted in right away on here! Outsiders think you have to have cancer to be a member but really, it's all about being a bit mad!
You take care of yourself and remember this board provides as much for loved ones as it does for those members who have/have had cancer. Believe me, it's invaluable.
Love
Deborah

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Hi everyone,
Went to the hospital yesterday and boyh of my vocal chord's are out of sync not just one.I can have the implant put in which the doctor said would be 60% effective, so I am just hoping this can be done before the wedding.In the mean time I may be lent a gadget that I type on and the machine talks for me.That would be better than having to write my to do lists for Paul and Nic,at least I will know they have heard me, unlike a piece of paper that they can say they didn't see!They are both out and about at the moment doing errand's.Paul is sorting my finances and, Nic has gone to fetch some hair extensions for me.All I have to do is select some music for the ceromony, which I haven't as yet done.Being as we have arranged this wedding as quickly as they do in the soap's on t.v. I hope we don't have soap style ending to the day!
I don't think I will be climbing on any roof top drunk like Becky in corrie is going to be doing!I'm scared of heights.I don't think I have ever left a wedding sober so we will have to see what happens at the end.
I will let you know about the implant when I hear from them.
Hope everyone is ok.

Lots of love Elaine x

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hi elaine
i was wondering how you were and was just going to send you a p.m and you have popped up,how lovely of nik to send you such a lovely message what a lovely caring family you have and you must be very proud of them.i can't wait to see photo's of your wedding sounds as though everyone one is pulling out all the stops for your special day.good luck with the talking gadget and i am sure it won't be anything like a soap wedding with drama's just a lovely day for you both to declare your love for each other.take care hon love shirl xxx

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Hi,
this is just a quickie. I had my hen party last night. Everyone had a great time dancing all night, but boy I'm paying for it now. I've been back to bed twice and have every intention of sneaking back up there in a minute! We are away tomorrow so I will be in touch on our return. Have a good weekend. Lots of love Elaine x

Moved Reply:

Wow Elaine you truly are amazing (Nik it sounds as if you have one helluva Mum). I am so glad that you enjoyed your hen night and that all the plans for the posh wedding are coming along so well and wish you lots of luck with the vocal chords.

Do keep us posted on your progress.

Warm wishes,

Cathy

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Hi, everyone. Sorry I haven't been in touch, but I haven't been feeling very well. It started when we were supposed to be away in Gurnsey I was in too much pain and then sleeping all the day.I have been given some morphine patches but they seem to be knocking me about a bit,A few hours with no pain would be nice. Not long now till the wedding everything is in place and we are all excited and looking forward to the "Do". I managed to look at the photoos yesterday they are really good. I will see if Nic can help me put some onthe site.I should have done it yesterday because Nics boyfriend is a bit of a whiz onthe computer.
I will slink of for a rest and get back to you later,I hope you are feeling better than when I read about you Trev. Speak later take care xx

Moved Reply:

Hi Elaine
Great to hear from you. I'd been wondering where you were and how your holiday had gone.
So sorry to hear that you haven't been well. Best you get your strength up for the big day ~ only days away now. How exciting for you all.
Take care and look after yourself. Dont' forget the pics and keep posting.
Love
Deborah

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Hi Elaine,

Sorry to to hear that you are in so much pain. I do hope they get the meds right so that you can really enjoy your wedding. I hope the weather will be as lovely as it was this weekend and am much looking forward to seeing all the pics.

Take care and if we don't chat again before then, have a great day!
Cath