My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body.
Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was
the correct answer.

When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans,
so I said, 'My ears, Mommy."

She said, "No Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about
it and I will ask you again soon."

Several years passed before she asked me again.
Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer.
So this time I told her,'Mommy, sight is very important to everybody,
so it must be our eyes. She looked at me and told me, "You are learning
fast but the answer is not correct because there are many people who
are
blind."

Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years,
Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, 'No. But
you

are getting smarter every year, my child.

Then, my grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even
my
father cried.
I remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw
him
cry.

My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final good-bye to
Grandpa.

She asked me, "Do you know the most important body part yet my dear?"
I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a
game
between her and me. She saw the confusion on my face and told me,

"This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived
in
your life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you
were
wrong and I have given you an example why.
But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson."

She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with
tears. She said, "My dear, the most important body part is your
shoulder."

I asked, "Is it because it holds up my head? "

She replied, "No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a
loved

one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in
life,
my
dear.

I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always
have

a shoulder to cry on when you need it.Then and there I knew the most
important body part is not a selfish one. It is that which is
sympathetic
to
the pain of others.

People will forget what you said...
People will forget what you did.............
But people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.